AMD PHenom II x4 995 BE w/ M2N-SLI Deluxe

I desperately need help. I've looked and surfed the web for about 8 hours now.

I bought the 995 BE processor for my M2N-SLI Deluxe mobo from Asus. First, the mobo didn't recognize the processor ("Processor Unknown Model" and just ran at 800mHz). So, I updated the M2N-SLI Deluxe mobo to the recommended 5001 update provided by asus for my Win7x64 OS. With the 5001 BIOS update, the mobo finally recognizes the processor. However, the 5001, for some reason, doens't load my OS.

If I downgrade to the 1701 update, my processor isn't recognized but my OS loads. I believe I read somewhere that I had to manually adjust the voltage or something. I need to know how much voltage to allocate to the RAM and/or CPU and how to do it.

Please! Is there anyone who can suggest me

I also read somewhere that you will have to upgrade to the latest bios revision (2001) and turn the Vcore down to 1.20 in the bios. Also you will have to put the CPU timings on manual & change the memory to force ganged 128bit. But as per asus I dont see that processor is compatible with the m2n-sli mobo, check here - http://support.asus.com/cpusupport/l...I%20Deluxe&p=1